Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Metta
Love, without desire to possess, knowing well that in the ultimate sense there is no possession and no possessor: this is the highest love.
Love, without speaking and thinking of "I," knowing well that this so-called "I" is a mere delusion.
Love, without selecting and excluding, knowing well that to do so means to create love's own contrasts: dislike, aversion and hatred.
Love, embracing all beings: small and great, far and near, be it on earth, in the water or in the air.
Love, embracing impartially all sentient beings, and not only those who are useful, pleasing or amusing to us.
Love, embracing all beings, be they noble-minded or low-minded, good or evil. The noble and the good are embraced because love is flowing to them spontaneously. The low-minded and evil-minded are included because they are those who are most in need of love. In many of them the seed of goodness may have died merely because warmth was lacking for its growth, because it perished from cold in a loveless world.
Love, embracing all beings, knowing well that we all are fellow wayfarers through this round of existence — that we all are overcome by the same law of suffering.
Love, but not the sensuous fire that burns, scorches and tortures, that inflicts more wounds than it cures — flaring up now, at the next moment being extinguished, leaving behind more coldness and loneliness than was felt before.
Rather, love that lies like a soft but firm hand on the ailing beings, ever unchanged in its sympathy, without wavering, unconcerned with any response it meets. Love that is comforting coolness to those who burn with the fire of suffering and passion; that is life-giving warmth to those abandoned in the cold desert of loneliness, to those who are shivering in the frost of a loveless world; to those whose hearts have become as if empty and dry by the repeated calls for help, by deepest despair.
Love, that is a sublime nobility of heart and intellect which knows, understands and is ready to help.
Love, that is strength and gives strength: this is the highest love.
Love, which by the Enlightened One was named "the liberation of the heart," "the most sublime beauty": this is the highest love.
And what is the highest manifestation of love?
To show to the world the path leading to the end of suffering, the path pointed out, trodden, and realized to perfection by Him, the Exalted One, the Buddha.
The Four Sublime States
Contemplations on Love, Compassion, Sympathetic Joy and Equanimity
By Nyanaponika Thera © 1994–2011
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Emptiness
and non-self!
to the fact that things change without leaving a trace behind to follow the
path that impermanence has taken. This is called voidness or signlessness...
This awareness evaporates the desire for anything that is impermanent!
It also evaporates all aversion growing from our disappointed expectations.
Then naturally, this clean mind becomes fully aware of not having any agent,
immovable mover, or controller, which sometimes is called "Self, I, Me, Ego"
or even "Soul" by some people. This element of Dhamma, this basic intrinsic
nature of all, this law of Dhamma is known in Buddhism as emptiness of self!
Seeing impermanence with wisdom is the key to detachment, calming, stilling,
ceasing, and releasing mental relinquishment. Joyous Freedom is the result!
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
The Daughters of Mara are Dancing
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Funeral
After death, while the dead person is being prepared for the funeral, the monks and laypeople continue to chant to console the family and to help all recall the Dhamma. There will understandably be grieve and lamentation but calmness must be encouraged and maintained as such negative emotional states will help no-one. Wailing and emotional outbursts are discouraged as this will only create more attachments for both the dying, the dead and the relatives.The mind that arises at the time of death is usually the one that the person is most habituated to. People tend to die in character, although this is not always so. So it is emphasised strongly that the time to prepare for death is now, because if we develop and gain control over our mind now and create many positive causes we will have a calm and controlled mind at the time of death and be free of fear. In effect, our whole life is a preparation for death and it is said that the mark of a spiritual practitioner is to have no regrets at the time of death. "It's time we started swotting for the finals!"The Funeral serviceDon't fall victim to funeral scams.
~ conditions of non-opportunity:
o those who do evil and hold wrong views and are reborn as hell beings
o those who do evil and hold wrong views and are reborn as animals
o those who refrain from evil and hold right views and are reborn as humans
o those who refrain from evil and hold right views and are reborn as devas
~ condition of opportunity:
o those who do evil and hold wrong views and are reborn in the realm of ghosts.
It is clear here that food dana can only reach the deceased if he is reborn as a ghost.
In this sutta, we learn three important points:
o The dana given by the living to the deceased cannot reach him if he is born in hell, in the animal kingdom, in the human world or even in heaven.
o The dana can only reach the deceased if he is born in the realm of ghosts.
o Dana here has to specifically mean offering food and drinks to the departed relatives, since this dana cannot be received by a departed one reborn as a deva.
Even if the departed relative was not born there, other ghosts who were related to one in previous lives could eat the offerings.
In Pattakamma Sutta (AN 4.61) the Buddha said to Anathapindika that a noble disciple who acquired his income through righteous means should spend it by making five types of offerings. These are offerings to
o living relatives
o guests
o departed relatives
o the king (government)
o devas.
There is also a verse in Ratana Sutta (Khp 6) that urges deities to protect humans because they make offerings to them day and night.
The above references bring us to the following conclusion: a Buddhist is actually encouraged by the Buddha to make offerings to departed relatives as well as to devas.
Dedication of Offerings to Devas
In the story on the making of Pataliputta village found in Mahaparinibbana Sutta (DN. 16), the Buddha advised people to offer dana to virtuous monks and dedicate the offering to the devas there. These devas, being honoured and cherished, will honour and cherish the occupants of the house in return.
We can make two types of offerings: the direct offering of food and drinks to the departed ones, and the dana to the Sangha followed by sharing of merits. So, whether or not one’s offerings are appreciated or used by the recipient does not affect the validity of the wholesome kamma of doing puja.
2. The remainder of our life span is decreasing continually.
3. Death will come regardless of whether or not we have made time to practice the dharma.
4. Human life expectancy is uncertain.
5. There are many causes of death.
6. The human Body is very fragile.
7. Our wealth cannot help us.
8. Our loved ones cannot help.
9. Our body cannot help but grow old.It is our conjecture that yearning for life is greatest when the fear of death is greatest. The fear of death is greatest when one's sense of guilt is greatest, the fear that one has squandered the great opportunity of human life, an opportunity which could have been well utilized for spiritual growth. If, on the other hand, one has well utilized the opportunity of human life for spiritual growth, one can face the inevitability of death with relative calm, contentment and happy satisfaction.
- am I ready to die?
- what unfinished business do I have?
- what do I want to do or achieve in the time I have left?
- will my priorities change?
- what can help me at the time of death?
- "Live each day as though it were your last and one day you'll be right!"
Always be mindful of the Kindness
Friday, September 23, 2011
Worldly Gains
Futility of Worldly Gains
From ignorance give not their gathered wealth.
Greedily they hoard away their riches
Longing still for further sensual pleasures.
Encounter death with craving unabated;
[With plans] still incomplete they leave the corpse;
Desires remain unsated in the world.
Prodded with stakes he burns [upon the pyre].
And as he dies, no relatives or friends
Can offer him shelter and refuge here.
Must pass on according to his actions;
And as he dies nothing can follow him;
Not child nor wife nor wealth nor royal estate.
Nor can prosperity banish old age;
Short is this life, as all the sages say,
Eternity it knows not, only change.
Saturday, September 10, 2011
The Forest Monk
Sutta Nipata I.3
Khaggavisana Sutta
A Rhinoceros Horn
for all living beings,
harming not even a one,
you would not wish for offspring, so how a companion?
Wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
there are allurements;
on the heels of allurement, this pain.
Seeing allurement's drawback,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
is enmeshed in sympathy
for friends & companions,
neglects the true goal.
Seeing this danger in intimacy,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
entwined,
is concern for offspring & spouses.
Like a bamboo sprout,
unentangling,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
unfettered,
goes for forage wherever it wants:
the wise person, valuing freedom,
wanders alone, a rhinoceros horn.
-- when staying at home,
when going out wandering --
you are prey to requests.
Valuing the freedom
that no one else covets,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
in the midst of companions,
& abundant fondness for offspring.
Feeling disgust
at the prospect of parting
from those who'd be dear,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
content with whatever you get,
enduring troubles with no dismay,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
some of those gone forth,
as well as those living the household life.
Shedding concern
for these offspring of others,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
like a kovilara tree
that has shed its leaves,
the prudent one, cutting all household ties,
wanders alone, a rhinoceros horn.
a fellow traveler, right-living & wise,
overcoming all dangers
go with him, gratified,
mindful.
a fellow traveler, right-living & wise,
go alone
like a king renouncing his kingdom,
like the elephant in the Matanga wilds,
his herd.
-- yes!
Those on a par, or better,
should be chosen as friends.
If they're not to be found,
living faultlessly,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
well-made by a smith,
clinking, clashing,
two on an arm,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn,
"In the same way,
if I were to live with another,
there would be careless talk or abusive."
Seeing this future danger,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
elegant, honeyed, & charming,
bewitch the mind with their manifold forms --
seeing this drawback in sensual strands --
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
disease, an arrow, a danger for me."
Seeing this danger in sensual strands,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
wind & sun, horseflies & snakes:
enduring all these, without exception,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
with massive shoulders,
renouncing his herd,
lives in the wilds wherever he wants,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
that one delighting in company
can touch even momentary release."
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
the sure way attained,
the path gained,
[realizing:]
"Unled by others,
I have knowledge arisen,"
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
no thirst, no hypocrisy --
delusion & blemishes
blown away --
with no inclinations for all the world,
every world,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
disregarding the goal,
intent on the out-of-tune way.
Don't take as a friend
someone heedless & hankering.
Wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
who maintains the Dhamma,
a great & quick-witted friend.
Knowing the meanings,
subdue your perplexity,
[then] wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
in the world's sport, love, or sensual bliss,
abstaining from adornment,
speaking the truth,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
father, mother,
riches, grain, relatives,
& sensual pleasures
altogether,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
There's little happiness here,
next to no satisfaction,
all the more suffering & pain."
Knowing this, circumspect,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
like a fish in the water tearing a net,
like a fire not coming back to what's burnt,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
senses guarded, with protected mind,
not oozing -- not burning -- with lust,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
like a coral tree
that has shed its leaves,
going forth in the ochre robe,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
going from house to house for alms,
with mind unenmeshed in this family or that,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
expelling all defilements -- all --
non-dependent, cutting aversion,
allurement,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
as earlier with sorrow & joy,
attaining pure equanimity,
tranquillity,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
for the highest goal's attainment,
with mind unsmeared, not lazy in action,
firm in effort, with steadfastness & strength arisen,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
constantly living the Dhamma
in line with the Dhamma,
comprehending the danger
in states of becoming,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
learned, mindful, not muddled,
certain -- having reckoned the Dhamma --
& striving,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
Unsnared, like the wind in a net.
Unsmeared, like a lotus in water:
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
living as a conqueror, the king of beasts --
resort to a solitary dwelling.
Wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
with the release through good will,
compassion,
appreciation,
equanimity,
unobstructed by all the world,
any world,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
aversion,
delusion;
having shattered the fetters;
undisturbed at the ending of life,
wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
for a motive.
Friends without a motive these days
are rare.
They're shrewd for their own ends, & impure.
Wander alone, a rhinoceros horn.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
A Religionless Religion
The Buddha is not the founder of Buddhism - Buddhism is a by-product, a complex and multifaceted religious system developed by his latter disciples that evolved into different traditions, schools and "yanas".
Friday, September 2, 2011
Monday, August 29, 2011
Dhamma
The Six Qualities of the Dhamma
The Dhamma is:
- Svakkhato Bhagavata Dhammo - well-proclaimed by the Blessed One,
- Sanditthiko - self-realized,
- Akaliko - followed by fruit without delay (of immediate result),
- Ehipassiko - worthy of the invitation "Come and see",
- Opaneyyiko - brought to oneself,
- Paccattam Veditabbo Vinnuhi - realized by the wise each for himself.
The Dhamma can be listened, studied, practiced and realized with great honor and adoration by those, not by ordinary person - but by the ones who accumulated meritorious deeds, who wish to enjoy peace and happiness. It is so valuable that it cannot be appraised and incomparable and superior to any other worldly treasure. But it is extremely difficult to come across, to listen and to learn because the Dhamma is available to us only when a Buddha appears.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Egoless
Buddha once said:
Blissful is solitude for one who is content, learned & who see the True Dhamma.
Blissful is harmlessness towards all beings without exception.
Blissful is freedom from any sensual urge whatsoever.
Yet, the supreme bliss, is the elimination of the abysmal conceit “I am”!’
Udana – Inspiration: II – 1
Monday, August 1, 2011
Kamma
1) Who keeps track of karma?
2) If good begets good and evil begets evil, what determines what is good and what is evil?
3) If good begets good and evil begets evil, then would karma be 'sort of' a just system?
4) Since it seems to be a just system, which implies that it is omniscient (knows and sees all), perhaps we can dare call karma a 'sort of' god?
Thank you.
Friday, July 29, 2011
Sunday, July 24, 2011
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Friday, July 8, 2011
Good, Bad, Who Knows!
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Monday, July 4, 2011
Kamma
The law of kamma is different from the idea of fatalism or predetermination.
In fact, Buddhism teaches about causal relationships, NOT things being predetermined. There are three views concerning Kamma which the Buddha clearly REJECTED.
The first is past-action determinism, which asserts that all our experiences in the present life are solely determined by past actions.
The second is theistic determinism, which means that all our experiences and all events are due to God's creation and will.
And the third view rejected by the Buddha is called accidentalism, which holds that all experiences are merely manifestations of fortuitous elements, uncaused and unconditioned. This fallacious view rejects the principle of causality and the law of kamma.
The first two views allow no room for free will, and are fatalistic in nature. The third is obviously untenable for the simple reason that it goes directly against common sense and the well-established truth of causal relationship.
Buddhism teaches that with kamma, our experiences are conditioned by our actions rather than being predetermined or willed by God. It realistically allows for a plurality of causes or conditioning factors, including the factors of will and natural phenomena. In this way the Buddha's teaching of kamma is sensible and has a strong appeal for modern critical minds.
The complex workings of Kamma - Vipaka is unfathomable, something beyond our mortal understanding. Even when the Ven MahaKassapa was trying to understanding the workings of kamma, the Buddha explained to him that this is beyond even the Mind of an Arahant.Why do we assume that"bad things should not happen to Good people"?
The reality is WHY NOT!? One being Vegetarian will not stop a Bull from charging at you!Think about it. This is important.
When we ask "Why do bad things happen to good people," the question itself is pregnant with a few assumptions. It assumes the existence of someone or something who is supposed to make sure that 'this does not happen'.
What you are saying is : "I think there is some form of a God or gods, and he/she is supposed to be good. And if he is good, then why do bad things happen to good people?"
Alternatively, the question "Why do bad things happened to good people," may really be saying "I'm not sure that God exists, or that if he does exist, is able to do anything and everything, and that is why such things are happening."So we should be clear what it is we are actually questioning!
Let us first understand what are the "ground rules" for existence. Using this we see clearly that things happen because of causes and conditions, not because someone protected you or Failed toprotect you, or made things happen in a certain way.Why did the tsunami happen? Is it because God/s made it happen? So many good people died, what happened to theirGod/s at that time? Was he on vacation? Or was it gross negligence on his part to his subjects who invested in him?The tsunami happened because 2 earth plates MOVED. That's it. That's the cause and because of it, a tsunami results.Because we are stuck in a narrow finite perspective of time and space, we tend to blame whatever we cannot understand on the divine. What is positive we call a miracle, we is negative we label as punishment from the divine.
In discussing this issue, we're NOT able to give an answer as to why particular things happen in a particular situation to someone. While I can say it is sad that one boarded a bus with a sleepy driver, it is beyond me to speculate as to why one chosethis bus over the next.To understand kamma-vipaka as interpreted in the things that happened and that DID NOT happen to us is beyond us. We all have such a HUGE load of kammic causes both positive and negative that can ripen and come to fruition under the right conditions, that it is impossible to unentangle them and say "this is because of that action."We can only do what is wholesome NOW and keep our precepts well, so that we dilute the unwholesome kamma and not have the conditions for its fruition to be present. It is so important that we act wisely and NOT create more conditions for unwholesome events to take place. It's obvious for example that by not mixing with the "wrong" crowd, abstaining from alcohol, pubs, drugs, late nights partying, etc that we reduce the chance of an unhappy event occuring.Please do not blame anyone divine for what happened, No One is in charge... only we are in charge of ourselves and EVEN that is relative and NOT absolute. There are many many factors beyond our control and we can only do our best within what is in our sphere of influence.And the first thing is to be sure we keep our precepts well. That is what will protect us, from our own possible unwholesome acts.
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